Become the kind of man women want to say yes to.
Stop second-guessing yourself. Learn to open conversations confidently, hold them engagingly, and turn those moments into actual dates.
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Hi, I'm Alex. Here's how I help you get dates — without cheesy pickup lines.
For men who know they've got more to offer — they just need the right tools.
Most guys don't struggle because they're boring or unattractive. They struggle because nobody ever taught them how to connect. The Charm Architect gives you a practical, respectful framework to start conversations naturally, build genuine chemistry, and turn that into dates.
No manipulation. No cringe “techniques.” Just clear communication skills, social confidence, and real-world practice that actually works.
What you'll walk away with
- Know what to say in the first 60 seconds
- Get numbers and set up dates without overthinking
- Build calm confidence and genuine social momentum
How it works
A clear, three-step process so you know exactly what to expect.
Assessment + plan
We start with a deep-dive session to understand where you're at, what's holding you back, and what success looks like for you. You leave with a clear, personalised roadmap — not a generic checklist.
Weekly coaching + practice
Each session builds real skills: opening conversations, keeping them going, reading the room, messaging on apps, and handling nerves. We roleplay real scenarios, debrief your interactions, and set between-session challenges.
Review + refine
Progress is tracked, feedback is specific, and the plan adapts as you grow. Accountability keeps you moving — especially when motivation dips. You finish with skills that last well beyond the program.
Optional add-ons
Coaching fees
Choose the level of support that suits where you're at right now.
Starter
1 session
Get clarity and a clear plan of attack.
- 60-minute 1:1 strategy session
- Personalised action plan
- Conversation starter scripts
- Email follow-up summary
Momentum
4 weeks
Build real skills, real fast.
- 4 × weekly 60-minute sessions
- Weekly missions and real-world challenges
- Messaging and dating app review
- WhatsApp check-ins between sessions
- Session recordings included
Intensive
8 weeks
Full transformation, full support.
- 8 × weekly 60-minute sessions
- Everything in Momentum
- In-depth profile audit and rewrite
- Roleplay and live practice scenarios
- Priority WhatsApp access
- 30-day post-program check-ins
Coaching is not therapy. Results vary based on effort and consistency.
Common questions
If yours isn't here, ask me on the call.
Let's talk
Book directly into my calendar, or send a message and I'll reach out within 24 hours.